Anyone else’s husband?

I am extremely sick and my 7 month old is as well. I’ve been trying to get stuff done around the house, but I barely have any energy. My husband told me I do nothing around the house and since I’m sick, I don’t have any excuse to not be doing anything. He said “clean our room while I’m at work” (our room is dirty bc he throws his clothes all over the floor) or do some laundry. I just did laundry and barely could lift it bc I feel weak so I haven’t been for only 2 days. Does anyone else’s husband do this? I feel like I can’t even relax when I’m sick and I’m taking care of our baby as well.

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tell him to shove it. 😂😂😂

I would be cleaning up after myself and leaving his mess where he leaves it because I'm petty like that lol. Clothes on the floor? Oh no, no clean clothes for him. Dirty dishes? Oh no, no clean dishes to eat food on. I think it's terrible he's expecting you to do these things even when you're not sick. Just the lack of sleep for me has me not getting anything done in my house and my husband comes home from work and never, ever complains - he comes home and loads the dishwasher or washing machine so it's one less thing I have to do even though he's been at work all day. Not okay imo, sorry you're having to go through this x

@Meesh 🤍 trust me I’ve tried

@Gabriella I wish! I feel like I’m the only one that ever does anything and even when I was working and pregnant, I was too bc i “had to have it done on my time schedule” aka actually doing it. I also tried leaving his stuff and he looked at me and said clean the up before I get home, which is his closet space. I’m so exhausted and honestly needed to rant bc I feel so alone

Omggggg who does he think he is to speak to you like that! If my husband ever told me that mess better be cleaned up when he got home, I'd purposely leave it, idk, I'm someone who'll test patience tho 😂 but in all honesty, wtf is he gonna do anyway? Yell at you? Put you down? I definitely think you need to put your foot down. Don't back down. Assert dominance. Dont let him walk all over you. Tell him you've had terrible sleep and you're exhausted from baby waking up due to teething? Some days I just wake up and have done absolutely nothing but sleep all day, and my husband is just getting home from work - but he understands!! I don't think it's fair you're raising a whole human/child and keeping them alive, as well as yourself. Your husband doesn't need to be the second child you're raising!

Ask him if when he gets sick and can’t work would he like a chore list as well?

Throw the whole men... Like really. You deserve someone who treats you right when sick. Not someone who gets pissed. He sounds shitty

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