I would be frustrated too… I’ve caught my partner who has left our freezer open and my milk had started to thaw… and I’m jealous you have a partner willing to get up at night so you don’t have to.
@Alyssa the apps have way WAY reduced our stress!! Everyone is different.
I hear good and bad with the apps. For me it’s an easy way to look back and tell the pediatrician things. When she first came home she wasn’t gaining weight, and now she barely sleeps during the day. So it was easy to log and look back. But in hindsight I also understand that if every little thing doesn’t get logged it’s not the end of the world. I’m so grateful for what he does especially seeing some moms basically do 80 % on their own.
Sorry but I wouldn’t be to mad at him. He messed up it happens to the best of us. It’s awesome that he’s helping with night wakings. It can be hard to have perspective when you’re tired though.
I totally get the milk thing bc breast feeding is hard. I’m exclusively pumping and just a bit of spillage when pouring used to set me off in the beginning. I’ve calmed down some with that but considering the milk comes from our blood, it’s so much work to produce. In terms of logging, i still used the app bc I’m more a type a personality and my husband is more relaxed so i don’t bothering him much anymore about logging feeds and changes. I completed stopped logging sleep bc it was driving me crazy. 🤪
I don’t mean this in any mean way but girl those apps are such an added stress, I tried them for a few days and would cry bc it was too much to keep track of and if things didn’t line up I worried so much if my baby was eating enough or too much or if I was going something wrong. When I stopped logging every things my baby did and just watched for her hunger cues and sleep ques life so much easier. What you want done one way your partner might not agree I am learning that me and my husband have different ways of doing things and I would be really annoyed if he told me I was doing it wrong so I’ve had to back way off and let him parent the way he knows and me do the same - of course as she gets older we will need to be on the same page about bigger things but for now try to let go a little. Again I’m coming from a place of love bc I did all of these things too and we had a period of arguing all the time but it got better when I let go a little