Unusual activity

(Long back story ) so about two months ago, my husband got a new group of friends from driving my luxury I8 and since then has been outside hanging out every time I go to work. The guys are in a car group and are constantly going to car meets. Every day, there’s another activity in the group chat. This wouldn’t be so bad, but my husband has a problem communicating where the baby is. During these times I would be at work instead of him saying hey I’m going to drop the baby off at my aunt and I’m going here. He would not say a word until I call. I’ve already voiced that if he can’t communicate, I’m not going to stay around because I don’t have any friends in this city all my friends are in LA. So he continued to go out every time I go to work sometimes staying out past 4 AM I finally got fed up and drove the car to my parents in LA and left it there . Really to see is our relationship based on the things that I offer or love. Since then, he’s been making an effort doing little things here and there, but I’m at work now and to my surprise, he’s back to not communicating again. Am I wrong for going to LA Monday through Friday due to him constantly having other plans that don’t involve us?