I felt very much like you with my first. I really enjoyed having him. My second on the other hand is incredibly hard work and I very much appreciate the time she's at pre school. Children are all different and we all deal with things differently. I would never make anyone feel bad for having a different opinion though. If people say negative things to you I'd just ignore it
I totally agree, I love my days off in the week when it's just me and my daughter and the thought of loosing those days when she starts school actually makes me upset. But then I do also understand how sometimes a bit of a break is needed and adult conversation you get at work
I honestly couldn’t agree more with the statement. It’s tiring and i often have days where i can’t wait for bedtime but they soon grow and i wouldn’t change it for the world. My children are everything! I have a 3 year old and an almost 11 month old, thinking about starting work after the new year for the first time in almost 4 years and im dreading it, leaving my kids with other people and having to be at work 8/9 hours a day! Don’t feel bad about missing your children and wanting to be around them! That’s how it should be, as hard as it is, you should want to spend time with your children❤️