@gabi I would love to still have my daughter in our room when she's 3 but our room doesn't have the space lol. That said, I will definitely be letting her crawl into bed with me whenever she wants, and at that point if my fiance has a problem with it I'm getting a bed for her room that I can also fit on (we currently have a toddler bed in the garage for when she's older). My fiance thinks letting her sleep with me whenever she wants will have her sleeping in our bed til she's 12 which I honestly find to be ridiculous and dramatic. I know she won't always be my baby and she won't always want to cuddle up next to me so I want to savor it as long as possible
Ah yes the typical "will still sleep in your bed when 12" 😒 I would just turn around and say "well you are - yrs old and sleep next to me so why can't a baby that actually needs me" 🤣 that honestly annoys me so much when grown adults try to make babies sleep alone but they sleep next to their partners 😅 so don't worry, she won't be stuck in your bed forever and yea you can always just get a floor bed and if he complains just go snuggle up next to your baby. With my eldest we tried moving her into her own room at 6 months but she wasn't having it so she stayed in ours until she was 11 months old and even then there was nights where I was just too tired that instead of transferring her into her cot we just all slept in bed together.
I find this so satisfying and so should you lol, if men want to be pigheaded like they know better with 0 experience let them find out for themselves. He isn't "allowing" you to do jack shit, he tried to talk the talk but couldn't walk the walk, now he's retreating with his tail between his legs. Also, the 'until she's 12 years old' comment demonstrates such an intense degree of stupidity it's hilarious. I invite everyone who has ever uttered that or similar to find one person that shared a bed with their mum until going into their teens... most 12 year olds don't even want to sit on the sofa and watch a movie with their parents nevermind share a bed 😂
Nah, it doesn't make you a bad person since you let him see for himself and realise that it's better to get some sleep than not. My youngest is 3 now still in our room with her bed next to ours. She's been in our bed since newborn as I was also breastfeeding. Occasionally still lays down next to me in our bed