BF went clubbing
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He should’ve kept in contact with you at least. I would’ve been pissed off too and I don’t have any conditions. Yes he should be able to have fun and go out but he needs to at least let you know where he is and if he’s going to stay out longer
I’m sorry, I know it’s a tough situation, perhaps because it was his first night out with his friends in quite a while he just got a bit carried away and didn’t notice how long he’d been out? Seems like he’s a good guy looking after you all, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a parent going on a night out if that’s what he enjoys, it’s not like clubbing is all about hooking up with other people, I’m sure he was just having a fun night with his friends and wasn’t ready for it to end x
Girl you better tell his ass to go home! lol I wish my husband would do something like this. I know a couple of men who are the exact same smh good thing my husband only has one friend 😊😂
@Erin I think it’s the principle. He was out for 8 hours, knowing his wife has health issues. And it probably wouldn’t be a bigger deal if he kept in touch with her for those 8 hours
@Gifty exactly what I was saying. Just ignoring her and not caring to check his phone for 8 hours is insane
Who even parties for 8 hours? I mean let’s be really honest here. That’s really ridiculous.
@Gifty I woulda faught lmao
@Gifty So he went for food first to watch football then I guess that’s when he went out
@daisy I was close😌
@Gifty His phone died but he knows my number so he could’ve called me - that’s why I was upset
@Gifty I totally agree! He definitely should have kept in touch, and told her what his plans were. I was just trying to maybe calm her down 😂
Sounds like he doesn’t do this often, he needed a break. As you said, his phone died and he let his head down. I wouldn’t have a problem if my husband had done that
what is at the club?? ---but alcohol and a bad decision. I would think he is playing in my face and I would be planning my departure. It would b different if you said- a billard, top golf or restaurant. But the club is for men who are seeking something new. A club is literally a bar, a bathroom and a dancefloor. To mingle.
People in these comments defending this behaviour ☠️ this wouldn't be acceptable if you had 0 health issues. Anything could have happened, the moment he saw his phone dead he should have called and came home. He can't contact you for 8 hours but can at 2am in an uber? Stinks to high heaven 🐟 Also Raven is 100% right, nothing innocent is happening at a nightclub.
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I would be beyond upset because he stays home due to your valid health concerns (seizures and motor function), and when those came up and you did have seizures, he was unreachable. If he wanted to stay out that long he should have had someone else with you, or a backup plan for if there's problems. You agreed to what you could handle and he broke the agreement, and it put you in danger.
Update: he came home at half 2, his phone doesn’t charge properly so he couldn’t call but no excuse he knows my number and should’ve be called. I gave him an ear full and he apologised. He’s an amazing guy and never goes out so im not mad about that just the lack of communication but he’s apologised and we are now getting his charging port fixed. Thanks for your help 🩷
I agree that it's the principle, he could have used his friends phone or a pay phone to call you! And being out for 8 hours is unreasonable a couple hours of fun is okay but 8 hours? Is absolutely insane I don't agree that once you get married or become a parent you shouldn't club I don't know why people think there are age caps on certain activities or even once your in a relationship you should stop doing certain activities... I don't get that but everything else I'm with you on for sure
@Amber he’s easily influenced and I don’t really like his friends but then I’ve only met them one (in uni) there was three of them, him and another guy didn’t want to go but they were basically egged on by the other guy but still grown men ..
Wow we are in the most similar places My partner did this last night but it was for his bday he went with a group of friends and i also stayed with our son. His friends are pos and i also cant understand why men are like this. They never grow up sadly
I know what it's like trying to look after little one and have seizures it's not nice at all , but am hoping you are ok now 🙏
8 hours?! Holy shit I would be losing my mind if he didn’t respond for over 2 hours I’d think he died or something. That’s crazy I would be upset too