Motivation

How did you guys find motivation to do stuff during the day clean etc. 2u2 and being a SAHM and don’t really have help from dad when he’s home. I find myself not wanting to do anything knowing I have to clean but I’m just not motivated any advice.
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Honestly. I drink way more coffee than I should 😂 but it gets easier!!!

@Chelsea lol I feel that I had to stop drinking coffee i was drinking too much😂😭

I honestly drink an unhealthy amount!! We have a 5 cup coffee pot and I drink like 2 pots 😩

My husband wasn’t very helpful when my first baby came, because of how he was raised. In his home he was taught to make money for the home but he didn’t need to do anything within the home. No cooking cleaning no helping with kids. When that first baby came he tried to keep on that same path. I told him hell no. I don’t want to be a single parent. I work 24/7 so why do you get to come home and do nothing? I have his help now because we both believe we need to do better as parents than our parent did with us. Maybe he needs to be more involved so you can have more motivation. So that you feel less alone or like the work is too repetitive. Maybe you can get child care for 1 day a week to recharge??

@Chelsea omg 2 pots 😭I’d be jumping off the walls 😂

I have a 17 month old and a 3 month old 🤣 I need all the help I can get! lol

@Rose I’ll definitely look into child care for one day and talk to my s/o about helping out more

@Chelsea girl I feel you my little ones are 18 months and 4 months 😂

I’ve had my mom or mil come over to keep an eye on my boys (also 2under2) while I cleaned. That was super helpful for me. Otherwise regular days I try to at least clean up 1 thing or 1 room. So like take care of the dishes tomorrow and that’s bare minimum so if it takes the whole day to chip away then at least 1 thing is done otherwise maybe my boys are content by the time I finish the dishes and I am able to also wipe the counters. Don’t be too hard on yourself though, 2 under 2 and keeping the house clean is so hard

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