Am i being used?
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So I told BD im sick being mooched off & it over .he started crying (I did feel bad) saying he loved me and was doing all he could but I know in my heart nothing will change
So my BD on paper doesn't live with us but stays 6-7 nights a,week. I do all housework,childcare,work part time and pay the bills .he hands me 50 euros per week (not working at the minute)when he does work hands in 100 euro per week but always make sure he gets himself 50-100 euro worth of weed each week. Doesn't help around the house does very little with the kids and expects sex every day /night & sulks if I am,too tired or says am I going off him ?
we have 2 small children age 6 & 2 , and the 2 year old still be's up in the night which is,me getting up also he sleeping 😏
Am I being unreasonable in asking to split responsibilities 50/50 & (when he get another job)bills 50/50 or am I just being taken for a,mug 😪
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You're not being unreasonable at all, 50/50 responsibilities is what it should be regardless of a job or not. Time to give him an ultimatum, step up or step out
@Valerie honestly at this moment I do not know
You’re practically a single mum with a giant man baby on the loose. I agree with the ultimatum x
Not only being taken for a mug, you're being used and in a financial & abusive relationship.
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It should be 50/50 and you shouldn’t have to wait for him to get a job.