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@Alyssa I would be fuming.
Incredibly selfish and insensitive. A week is a long time. You have every right to be upset.
We had our first baby in March of 2023 and my husbands friend was having a bachelor party in June and wanted my husband to go. I definitely wasn’t okay with it and my husband didn’t end up going… not only was I not a fan because it was a bachelor party but also baby girl was still so little I feel like we were still navigating and figuring out how to be parents.
I might be the odd one out here… but I’d let mine go. 🤷🏻♀️
@Korrina he went to the one this past January so him going isn’t the issue. The issue is that baby will be so little and I’ll still be adjusting.
@Cheyenne that’s how I feel. I still won’t be able to do much heavy lifting a week is so long with a new baby. I can’t imagine leaving for a weeks long girl trip & telling him he’ll figure it out.
I’m getting induced on the 8th. (4th baby… together 13 years). He will be there for the birth, but after that, he’s free to go. lol. Sometimes it’s just easier and less stressful when you get a break from your spouse. Just means less cleaning and less commotion.
My fiance is a pro wrestler and is booked for the rest of the year. I go in for a c section on the 17. His next wrestling show is the 26. I'm continuing to let him keep up with all of his appearances for the rest of the year which will be every weekend . I some times need a break from him lol. But your feelings are valid. and never think they aren't. He should want to be home with u. Not every mommy is the same and your needs should be met.
This makes me feel like i should be more upset about my man going on a snowboarding trip in january too. Baby will only be under 2 months 😭