Also if possible get kidlets to help you get things for him as well with things they are able to do
This may sound harsh, but I think you should drop him for a while, here's why. When I was pregnant and reading the baby books there was one that said basically, "Make a list of the top 3 things that are important to you that you spend your time on each week (your job, your spouse, your extended family, a beloved hobby, etc). Cross out 2 and add the baby. That is what you will be able to accomplish after the baby arrives." I couldn't believe it pre-baby, but ultimately, there was some truth there. You are in the home stretch of your pregnancy (a technical disability), have two kids at home, & are homeschooling. It would be nice if you or your husband had energy to put into each other right now, but you don't. Right now, your have-to-haves are all tied up with the kids. It won't always be this way (it can't, actually) & you can keep your eyes out for opportunities to connect here & there, but he is an adult, capable of caring for himself and deciding how he wants to spend his time and your kids are not. Period.
@Monique I usually make him a quick lunch or snack when he gets home but there are times I’m burnt out and would like him to cater to me
@Shanna🌹 i understand that. Its kind of a one hand washes the other situation IMO make him his favorite meal and make it special, he may be burnt out as well. If you want a tired man to cater may want to try and make him feel special as well even if youre tired
Warehouse work is gruelling. I would ask if he wants a coffee or ask if theres anything you can do to help him help you.