I would agree! I personally would not want ro be making Christmas dinner 3 weeks after having a baby, and if you want a nice quiet one then this is the time to do it! 🥰
I agree I would go to theirs personally. I know for me three weeks after my c section I couldn't even make a cup of tea let alone a Xmas dinner. Go to there's and be waited on hand and foot like you deserve and you can always leave when you want
After a section?! You should be taking it easy still at the 3 week mark,not waiting on house guests! I’d suggest going to them so you can concentrate on baby and be waited on! Then they can still play with your little girl and you get to leave whenever you want!
Definitely tell them all you just want to spend Xmas together as a little family. You're adults, you don't owe parents Xmas
Stay home yourselves or visit them. Then you can leave at any point xx
Thanks ladies. I really don’t want to go to them, I don’t want to pack up both kids for the day and I know we’ll end up there for much longer than I would want / be comfortable with if we do. I had a previous section with my LG and recovered really well, I think everyone is just expecting that I will be almost back to normal after 3 weeks - which I largely was last time but who knows. Think I will stick to them just coming over in the morning or afternoon, after all, it’s just lunch on one day of the year. If my MIL feels so inclined, she can do a rerun when I’m 100% up for it x
I’d either stay at home to yourselves or go to there’s and be waited on so you can enjoy baby and LG whilst they do cooking and tidying x