Pregnancy after miscarriage

I found out I am pregnant again a couple weeks ago. I haven’t told anyone yet apart from my husband. I’m curious for those of you that had your “rainbow” baby when did you accept that pregnancy was different. I’ve had 3 miscarriages and I want to be excited for this pregnancy but I can’t help feeling a little anxious that something could happen. I will say this one feels different. I’m having more symptoms, and I actually had a dream of this pregnancy before I got pregnant. I really feel this one is different but I can’t help being anxious… I’ve taken a pregnancy test everyday just to see the lines. So did you feel less anxious after the first trimester? The viability date? The 36 week mark? After the baby was born? When were you sure this was your healthy baby? And also when does the guilt go away? Does it ever?

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I felt a bit better after my 12 week scan but I only really started to feel confident when I started feeling her move. I found this website useful in calming my first trimester nerves though https://datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer

@Hattie I love that website! Thank you!

I’ve had 4 miscarriages and currently 32 weeks pregnant with my rainbow. I honestly didn’t really accept this pregnancy is good and healthy until midway through the second trimester when I started feeling his movements. I was and am so excited but I was also absolutely terrified. It didn’t help that I had spotting and bleeding throughout the first trimester but I’m having a textbook normal pregnancy. In the beginning I took a lot of tests as well. What also helped was booking private ultrasounds. I got one done at 17 weeks and it really helped ease my mind since I wasn’t really feeling any movement yet! Theres always fears of course, but I promise the anxiety and scared feeling does get better. I hope this pregnancy goes really well for you💕

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