Falling out of love?
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Its not always supposed to be roses and sunshine. Its going to get boring. Unless the two people in the relationship put effort into one another. Going on dates, doing new things. As long as he treats you respectfully and he has a kind heart, you can recover your feelings with effort. Speak with him on what you guys can do to improve. It changes all the time. You need to update each other. Because even if you start all over with someone new, you’ll be in the exact same spot years down the line
@Doris I didn’t even notice this would come of as privileged 🥲 Haha I think I’ll keep him, I might not be realizing there aren’t many like him out here.
@Ela Thank you! Yes he’s definitely a kind man I just don’t like to feel like I should tell a man how to act so when I do bring things up and he changes them I feel as if it’s not genuine because I am telling him to do it. Not sure if you understand what I mean?
I totally understand. Ive been married 4 years and together for 8 so it’s definitely not the same as it was in the beginning, and it wont be but you grow into new people as the years go by. We change and our needs change and since no one is mind readers, its actually so important to be able to tell each other it. It takes a lot to be able to ask for things sometimes but think of how our kids are. If they need something they tell us. It doesnt change much as adults, we just have to say it nicely. I also believe couples go through phases and the strong couples are the ones that make it out the boring/comfortable/just enough phase. Im kinda in that too after just having a baby. I feel like kids take up so much of your energy and we forget about our partners
Oh my land!!😍 I would totally die to have what you do‼️ good stable men are impossible to find out there!! If you don’t want him, send him my way 😂 I can’t even believe a real man still exists these days😯