@Neveah yea I think it will be a lot easier once I’m moved out because I cry literally everyday being here.
Hope you feel better once you’re out of there
I started to think in terms of how I'd like a friend to treat me. Respect, kindness, consideration & help are all such lovely things to receive in life. Especially if a loved one, partner or co-parent treats you this way. You should shift your mindset to thinking in terms of friendship with him, and consider if you would like his friendship in your life. You can mourn the loss of the love & future you thought you had privately. You cant make someone do something they dont want to do. He's an adult & making his own choices, and thus, so can you.
@Lauren thank you Lauren that is a great way to look at things
By dealing honestly. It’s soo hard but my best advice to to feel it. Feel the emotions so it won’t come up later after putting it off so much.