I turned down $6k to coach her because she asked me THIS QUESTION….
“Shannon”: “Okay, Darcel (crosses arms), Tell me why I should hire you? So Tell me why I should go with you? (laughs)”
Me: “Okay, let me ask you this first…I’m just curious…Why are you asking me that?”
“Shannon”: (Smirks) “I have another coach I’m thinking of going with who charges way less than you…But yeah, you have great reviews and I’ve been to your masterclasses, so I know you’re really good too.
Me: “Thanks for sharing that. I appreciate it. Okay here’s the thing “Shannon”…Let me be very clear….I actually don’t want to work with everyone. I am literally not the coach for certain types of people….And Shannon, This may trigger you, and that’s okay…But, I am 100% sure you are one of those types of people I am not the coach for.
“Shannon”: “Darcel, I didn’t say I don’t want to work with you…I simply said…”
Me: “…(respectfully interrupts) Babe, it’s all good. I know what you said & what I’m saying is this…I don’t want to work with you… simply because we are not a good fit…
“Shannon”: “…(Silently staring in anger)
Me: “I’m only the coach for people who are ready to transform their lives and become their most confident, fulfilled selves…These people clearly see the skill and value I offer in getting them there. My results and reviews speak to them and they don’t need me to convince them of why they should hire me.“
Me: “Babe, lastly…If it’s between me and another coach…Go with that coach…When you’re ready for me, there’ll be no questions about “am I the right coach for you?” You’ll know and be a full-bodied YES. Plus, Ima beast at what I do…Soooo, You’ll be back!😏🔥🐉”
“Shannon”: “Wow. You’re so cocky. That’s another thing I honestly don’t like about how you coach. Yeah, you’re right, we aren’t a good fit.”
Me: “Not cocky, unapologetically confident…that’s all. Okay, babe be well.”
(Ends Zoom) (Opens Instagram)
Me: “Baybeeeee!!! THIS FINNA BE SOME FIREEEE CONTENTTTT!!!!! HOLY CRAPPPP!!!!! Let’s goooo!
To the woman who is ready to go to her next level & doesn’t need to be convinced…Dm me “Confident” & let’s talk.
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"Unapologetically confident" you killed it there lol. Good for you !!!! I am happy that was your answer.