Hurting
I’m so hurt. He continues to belittle me and blame me for everything. I left him after giving birth to our daughter because he continued to lie, cheat, steal, etc. He’s in a new relationship now. As much as I don’t want to be with him and escaped his abuse, it still hurts so much. How can he move on when I’m barely 4 months postpartum? I’m torturing myself by looking at their social media profile. I can’t help but notice he’s doing everything for her that I begged him to do for me. I’ve cussed him out even though I’m trying to gray rock. I just need to accept that he never loved me and it was all an act to take advantage of me and my finances. He tries to control me through our daughter but I know I can get through this. I’m struggling. So much anxiety all the time 💔 I have great days where I’m just focused on my daughter, my happiness, and my healing. And other days like today where the anxiety and anger just consumes me.
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Bless you honey, seeing him do all that will hurt but it’s also a strength that you deserve better. Mourn it and fight to be healthy and strong for your gorgeous little girl. It will get better though it doesn’t feel like it now. 🐦🔥🐦🔥🐦🔥
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I'm so sorry to hear that. Males are pigs. FYI I always say males because I don't like saying men because to me they aren't their boys just taller and older. It is called the Peter Pan syndrome which means they never want to grow up. I know how you feel in married to one for a very long time but he was sneaky and discreet. At least now you can start to heal and not deal with this abuse or let your child grow up in it and be confused about what a relationship should look like. Get your own bank account and do mommy and me classes if they have any near you. Also, go to family court to make sure he doesn't start screwing you financially. You can file for child support and spousal support. It is 17% of his pay for the kid.