Freeloader for sure. It's been a month now. I can't voice myself anymore to my husband. He tends to put others needs before mine. And this situation he's already tired of me "complaining" . I walked out the room when his friend and kids got here and my husband text me saying "love plz be nice" I told him to tell that to his friend. Any remember my house was cleaned, I already had to go tell them to sit on the couch and stop playing. Also, it's now 10pm and that other tent is still not gone up. And not sure where he's going to get blankets, Ive allocated all the ones already for my family. Am I being sensitive there with the tents and blankets?
Honestly if it was me I would say to this person and in front of your husband that he has outstayed his welcome. He is putting a stain on your relationship and it’s now time for him to go. Your not a homeless shelter. Sometimes you need to be blunt and that can be harsh but sometimes that’s the only way people are going to get it.
@Cheyenne thank you! I sometimes feel I'm alone in my thoughts and how it's impacting me and my peace.
Is this friend contributing financially to your home or just freeloading? Because enough is enough he’s not your child or your responsibility. Stop opening your home to him. Also super curious about your religion/ sleeping in a tent? What are you celebrating?