FIL Going through my stuff
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Speak to your partner and put a lock on the door
@Roze I had some stuff for my baby in the drawers and he was in my room and threw them away keep in mind my partner pays half rent so it’s supposed to be our private safe space
@Bee I’m thinking more of telling my partner I’m leaving and until we get our own place I’m not coming back
@Maridel I’ve left my partner a long message basically telling him I’m going to stay with my family until we get our own place, with a long I’d need one from both ways, I have this anxiety now that he will come and check up on me and my baby when I’m sleeping or something
Oh god. I think you’re doing the right thing by putting your and your child’s safety first. I’m glad you have family you can go to. I really hope your partner understands and backs you up.
Is your FIL mentally unwell?
I would definitely be putting a lock on it.
https://a.co/d/bDtgQNW I would set this up…immediately. It could be intrusive but relatively innocent…or it could be something very violating. You need to know. I would see what’s going on and have the facts on hand when approaching everyone.
@Francesca honestly I think so
@Tiff my sister told me to get one also
Please do. $30 well spent! You need to know what’s going on.
100% if you can leave, then do. I wouldn’t feel safe or comfortable there..
What did he throw away? That is invading your privacy and he has no right to throw your things. It needs addressing. You should tell your husband. Can you stay with your family/friend until your husband is back?