No you’re not wrong. You’re not obligated to accommodate somebody else. If he wants to see his child he knows where you live.
Does he have some sort of medical condition that prevents him from leaving the house ? If not , then he should be making the effort to visit you . If he doesn’t come , he obviously doesn’t really want to see baby . A man who cares enough will make the effort . He’d walk if he had to . Public transport or a lift from his mum . If it’s because you are separated and he doesn’t want to face your dad …. Ask him to come around at a time when your dad is out . As long as you feel safe in seeing him alone .
No you’re not the problem! Stand on that
Stand your ground, you are not in the wrong for putting your foot down
7 weeks? WEEKS? Youre not the problem. Don’t cater to people who clearly don’t cater to you. Sheeesh.
@Margeaux (margo) right like she's still freaking healing hasn't even been to 8 weeks appt wtf he got some nerve he's the problem
It’s just his mom that wants to see the baby, not him
@Lianne Yeh it’s called dead beat dad syndrome!..
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I would put your foot down. I live by the saying “if he wanted to, he would” so maybe just tell him if he wants to see your daughter he’s more than welcome to come round and if he doesn’t that’s on him. You shouldn’t have to be putting in the effort to satisfy him 🫶