Am I the problem? 🤣

My baby daddy insists on me bringing my 7 week daughter to him (he lives with his mum) in order for them to see her. He won’t come to us (me and baby live with my dad). I don’t want to take her out the house of a late afternoon/evening to see them as it ruins her routine and also I feel like why should I have to lug her out time and time again, it’s effort!! Am I wrong for putting my foot down and saying no you can come here??

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I would put your foot down. I live by the saying “if he wanted to, he would” so maybe just tell him if he wants to see your daughter he’s more than welcome to come round and if he doesn’t that’s on him. You shouldn’t have to be putting in the effort to satisfy him 🫶

No you’re not wrong. You’re not obligated to accommodate somebody else. If he wants to see his child he knows where you live.

Does he have some sort of medical condition that prevents him from leaving the house ? If not , then he should be making the effort to visit you . If he doesn’t come , he obviously doesn’t really want to see baby . A man who cares enough will make the effort . He’d walk if he had to . Public transport or a lift from his mum . If it’s because you are separated and he doesn’t want to face your dad …. Ask him to come around at a time when your dad is out . As long as you feel safe in seeing him alone .