@Ola thank you. I’ll start looking into it all to be prepared. Idk what to do in the fact that he needs to leave. This is my apartment and I can’t move due to my credit. Me paying all the bills screwed me financially
Just want to throw out there that you can go to the police station and explain to an officer that you would like to break up with him and tell him he needs to move out but you're frightened of how he will react. They can come sit in with you and ensure you're safety. It made also be beneficial to make lists of everything that's yours that's of importance and plan it for a time that you and baby can go stay elsewhere for a few days so he can get his stuff out without you there
A “broken” home will always be better than an “abusive” home. My only real advise it that when you do it your baby is safely with someone away from where you are. As someone mentioned you can ask that a police officer be there to help whether it’s you moving out or having them move out.
Have someone come over to watch the kids/ be a witness just in case and ask him to another room to have a talk try to keep your composure and just do it. He isn’t doing anything for you so you are losing nothing. You are a strong beautiful queen and you can do this! ❤️❤️
Yeah it’s time to go and to protect yourself and your baby. Make sure you plan your exit smart though. He sounds like a narcissist from your description so make sure you’re safe and protected. Don’t tell him you’re planning on leaving but get prepared with proper resources for any possible legal actions if he takes you to court. The court system can be super not supportive to moms and to mom and baby connection and so it’s very important to be informed and have a good team and support on your side. I’m sending you much love