Ew...yea he was attacking you and then accused you of being sensitive when you reacted? He knew exactly what he was doing. You didn't overreact. He was being an annoying little passive aggressive kid with all the digs.
No I don’t tbink he will, we’ve had issues in the past and he wouldn’t go then
The things I see wrong here: Him saying it’s not enough sex even though you did it everyday. Him not complimenting you. Everything else seems like general bickering. It’s hard but he would probably appreciate you initiating sex more and that’s his passive aggressive way of telling you. I’m return you should ask for more compliments. He wants something, you want something so it should be easy to talk about it. Sounds like you need to fulfil each other love language. There’s no major red flags here for me 💕
So ultimately if he won't go to therapy and your conversations aren't being beneficial to both sides, do you want to stay? What would help the partnership be beneficial to both?
@Heather yes I want to stay, I love him very much and can’t see myself with anyone else, I just don’t know how to communicate with him so he understands my feelings, I end up shouting at him and then he ends up walking away which I then get upset but then I start thinking it’s all me that’s the problem. Therapy would help us massively he’s very much against it because he comes from a split family and his parents tried therapy and that’s when they decided the best thing was to separate, his childhood was very toxic between his parents after that for many years, although his mum and dad are now extremely good friends this has effected him later on in life, he’s also ADHD and I just lack in knowing how to communicate, you’d think after all these years together I’d know but we just always end up making the situation worse. 🤷♀️
How do you normally communicate with him? Do you use i statements? My husband is adhd and I'm audhd so 2 flavors of neurospiciness. I've had to work out over our 13 years together how to communicate.
Is he willing to go to therapy?