Asking God why

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It sounds like you’re feeling overwhelmed by the constant noise and presence around you, especially since you value your alone time so much. It’s completely valid to miss the quiet moments you once had to yourself, especially when you’re someone who thrives in peaceful, solitary environments. Having kids can feel like a major shift from that, and it doesn’t mean your feelings are wrong. Balancing parenthood with your personal need for space and quiet can be challenging, but finding little pockets of time to recharge, even if it’s just a few minutes, might help you feel more like yourself again. Do you get any moments to yourself, or is it nonstop?

I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed. God only gives you what you can handle, right? It might sound annoying to say that at times but obviously it is still hard for you. You're doing amazing, I promise. He knows you're the right person for your kids, even if there's a struggle you can absolutely get through it and when they are older you will have your clean space and glasses of wine again. This is the hardest part. Sending so much love to you, to help you through this.

🥺❤️‍🩹This resonates with me so bad right now. My newborn is a dream but my toddler Especially with his noise (so loud people comment), mess, tantrums/aggressive outburst. It's.non.stop. I love him but he wears me right down to tears (3 times today) Sometimes I feel like I want to give up trying to be the mum he needs cause God knows I've tried every approach 😮‍💨 I miss my quiet evenings like crazy