@Isabelle but like why keep it for 2 years…..like it’s just hurts
Did you ask him why he lied for 2 years? Perhaps there’s a reasoning behind it
@Isabelle he said he was never planning to tell me……the only reason he said it is because he was half awake and it just slipped out:( makes me feel like I can’t trust him
It still doesn’t explain why he didn’t want to tell you though, hmm if he can hide such thing then what else is he hiding
@Isabelle ya that’s how I feel…..it’s like he picked a hellish time to tell me too….that night we had been up all night because we had to take my aunt ( she’s basically my second mom) to the emergency room we had spent from 9:00pm to 3:00am at the hospital we had just gotten home to try and catch some sleep because she was still waiting for results and he just let that slip? I’m literally 32 weeks pregnant and I didn’t need this added stress. Like it makes me question so much about our relationship
This wouldn’t be a big deal for me. I personally don’t think it’s super serious. Like the person above mentioned it seems like he just didn’t want to worry you. If it had something to do with infidelity that’s a different story.
He probably just didn’t want to worry you, that’s all. I understand the principle of it but he just didn’t want you worried.