Feeling overwhelmed…

How would anyone feel if your husband told you that 2 years ago when you and him started dating that 2 months after got together that he lied about something that happened on his vacation……he went to Minnesota and he had told me he “fell down some stairs” he went to the emergency room and came home with bruises and i literally dropped everything to make sure i was at the airport when he got there…..fast forward 2 years and we have been married for a little under a year and this week he decided to tell me he lied……that he actually got into an accident. He was on jetskis with friends and had a head on collision with another jetski and was throw off and landed 20 feet away…..I just don’t even know how to deal with it. He thinks I’m wrong for being mad that he waited 2 years to tell me. Like am I wrong for feeling upset

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He probably just didn’t want to worry you, that’s all. I understand the principle of it but he just didn’t want you worried.

@Isabelle but like why keep it for 2 years…..like it’s just hurts

Did you ask him why he lied for 2 years? Perhaps there’s a reasoning behind it

@Isabelle he said he was never planning to tell me……the only reason he said it is because he was half awake and it just slipped out:( makes me feel like I can’t trust him

It still doesn’t explain why he didn’t want to tell you though, hmm if he can hide such thing then what else is he hiding

@Isabelle ya that’s how I feel…..it’s like he picked a hellish time to tell me too….that night we had been up all night because we had to take my aunt ( she’s basically my second mom) to the emergency room we had spent from 9:00pm to 3:00am at the hospital we had just gotten home to try and catch some sleep because she was still waiting for results and he just let that slip? I’m literally 32 weeks pregnant and I didn’t need this added stress. Like it makes me question so much about our relationship

This wouldn’t be a big deal for me. I personally don’t think it’s super serious. Like the person above mentioned it seems like he just didn’t want to worry you. If it had something to do with infidelity that’s a different story.

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