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My partner and father to my two year old tried cheating on me today while I was at work calling him to check on our daughter. I saw his messages making plans to go get drinks with another woman (mind you he has photos of us up on his social media) I wasn’t expecting this at all, just this morning we were making arraignments to get our loan to buy a house next year and he was showing me that he’s saving up to buy me the engagement ring I love. I’m beyond broken and stressed out about having to keep a smile on my face and not stay in bed crying so my daughter doesn’t see that. But now I have no choice but to find a place for her and I to live when our lease is up.
To anyone who had to deal with sharing a living space with an ex how did you not go crazy? I feel so weak I wish I could just give up and rot away but I know my daughter doesn’t deserve that
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What a creep! I’m so sorry. I couldn’t move past that either. If he was fully intending to go meet someone else for a date then he intended to see where it led in my eyes. I wouldn’t forgive him either. Hope you have a good support network of family and friends
Hi just wanted to pop on and say I've been in this situation. My ex cheated on me before and after our wedding didn't realise till my middle son was nearly 2. in my opinion once a cheat always a cheat. Cut a very long story short. Your better off without him. Concentrate on your daughter. I found love after a few years and have learnt to be myself thanks to my fiancé we have 1 child together and he took on my other children as he's own so it does get better 🙂
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Did u break up just based on him arranging to have drinks with another women? Sorry I don't mean to sound incentive just curious if your breaking up with him just based on him making plans. Obviously there's a lot of context we don't no about the situation, but have you tried to talk to him first if the furthest extent of it was purely just making plans. Even if breaking up is something you want I think talking it out will at least give you some closure and not make it so hard on you and make living together easier if u still maintain communication. It's not weak to have feelings and feel them, find someone to look after ur daughter for a few hour or the night or something and give urself that time to rot and give up and the when ur times up pick urself bk up n move on with ur feelings, I've found designating a period of time to feel ur feelings for that time and that time only makes moving on easier x