That is difficult, I’m sorry. My mom and I aren’t very close for similar reasons and behaviors. However, being able to throw a party for your baby is a luxury most can’t do or afford. I would focus on what really matters and that is your baby and be excited for the party!
No I wouldn't be upset. I'd expect from her at this point
@Francesca Valencia at this point, I expect her to do it to me, but it's making me angry that she's treating her granddaughter the same way she treated me
Sadly, your mom is struggling with her mental health. You gave her the opportunity to make it by scheduling it on her day off. It sounds like she's jealous of you or prioritizing he boyfriend's family, which is messed up.
@Aliyah if your mom can do it to you she can do it to your daughter. My mother is like yours always putting people before her family, always being a bully. I know the kind your mom is because I've had to deal with abusivness
Yes I would, my mom done that to me when I was younger and she does not have much to do with her three grandkids so I completely know where you are coming from
I am very sorry to hear all of it. I would do anything to have my family by me for my child. It sounds like she is making her own decisions and prioritizing the wrong way..