What should I do?
My husband came home in the morning drunk, yelling at me and the kids. He is stressed about our current financial situation. He is currently knocked out on the couch. My son has a birthday party I should bring him to, but my husband was supposed to watch my younger ones. I don't want to go to then have to bring all my 4 kids to the party but I want to make my son happy. On the other hand I don't want to leave when my husband will wake up, we won't be home and he has his issues.
Options let's see.... You could drop the one kid off at the party and have fun with the other 3 elsewhere, you could get a sitter for one or more of the kids, you could see if friends or family would want to help, or just take all the kids and find a way to make the party fun for them too.