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So my son’s father only has him every other Saturday for 8hrs. In between this he doesn’t text or call his son he doesn’t provide or do anything for him. He brought by son back home in an extremely full nappy and a red sore bum with poo all up in his crack. As you can imagine I’m very upset about this. I had told him that morning that he had to be extra mindful about changing our son as he’s been teathing quite badly and gets sore easily. I had texted him and he just sort of denied it tried to flip it on me and is now ignoring me and won’t talk to me 😔What would you have done in this situation? Was I right for being upset?
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Definitely right for being upset. I would tell him he needs to be changed more often, and you need to make sure he’s fully clean. If you can’t do this, then you can’t take him, and I would keep photographic evidence, just in case things get nasty. It’s definitely not good enough x

It’s a basic need of a baby, changed frequently and clean. How would he like to be left in his own 💩? I agree with Abbie!

I would class leaving his baby in a dirty nappy for hours neglect! X

That's lazy, selfish and neglect!

@Sarah Apparentky he changed his nappy only an hour before 🙄 I don’t belive him considering how sore he was and how full the nappy was. And if it did get that full that quickly he would have known about it before putting him in the car to bring him home x

@Abbie I took pictures of his nappy I didn’t take pictures of his bum and stuff..should I of done that? I hate that I can even trust his father with him 😔

That full nappy looks like it was on for at least 4-5h, he's lying I'm so sorry. Take evidence. Come down on him, tell the mediator etc

I think if it becomes a habit, then yes I definitely would! There’s no way that nappy is from an hour. That’s been left all day. My daughter sleeps 12 hours at night and her nappy doesn’t even look that full! He is definitely lying to you x

What kind of man even lie about things like that...

That nappy is probably the same one you put on him that morning. In future I would somehow mark the nappy so you know if it hasnt been changed. A wee dot of pen or somthing maybe.

Poor baby 😔 I’m sorry love, but I agree, I’d class that as neglect if it’s happening regularly and for sure that’s a lie I’m sorry to say xxx

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