Your going about it the right way. Talk to him I had a similar situation with my boyfriend (also been speaking on marriage but things like this holds things back) he’s already child support for his first child and it has been hell on earth for him and I feel bad because child support don’t care they will garnish everything from the dads even if they don’t have it. It’s not worth the many court visits. Once you go into court there’s really no trying to get them out life, they become very permanent and things change.
@Angela @Mama Taty so we have already talked about it as a couple. And I explained if he agrees to 250 a week I’d be able to handle all the bills while he handles the debt and that $1000 is protected and paid first and the debt collectors can’t take it. He agreed to it and says it’s a good idea. I’m just not sure how exactly it works since we are still together and don’t plan on separating.
Ahhhhh okay make sense
You're doing the right thing, don't let people talk you into a decision that you may regret. Talk to him and tell him what you were told and see how he reacts to it but always have a back up plan just in case