Needing guidance and strength support friends

Hello I’m recently a single mom of 2. Their dad and I were together for almost 9 years(in April) we over the last year had 3 miscarriages and were actively trying for another. He told me Wednesday night and also Thursday morning he didn’t love me and I haven’t made him happy in a long time. And I needed to leave, yelling multiple times at me to leave. So I packed me and the kids an overnight bag. Thinking just to give him some space but now he doesn’t want to work on things at all. We’ve had some previous issues with other girls behind my back in the past and a now a different girl that he works with. They’re always 8-10 years younger than us when he’s talked to other females. What I’m trying to figure out is how do I pull myself together I love him so much and this is hurting like hell. I haven’t ate besides 1 yogurt. It’s really killing me. The kids keep asking to go home and asking him their dad. I’m so lost😭😭

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Babe feel it all embrace it all and walk through this there's no other way. I can only say that I was in a similar situation with many many details that are similar yet different, and picking yourself up from this to move forward with two kids I'm assuming they're very young is the hardest thing. All of this is profoundly difficult so be gentle and kind mind your mental health because that is going to get you through and your tribe of women are going to be your saving Grace because when we're under so much stress cannot process what's going on but to keep taking the next right action. DM me if you need to. You got this you're not alone sending you so much love and hugs and there's more if you ever need to talk

Also I'm doing audio transcribe because it's a busy morning, but if this were me fuck him and I would press forward. You're doing all the right things

@🍉 our kiddos are almost 7 and 5

To hell with that man. The breakup will be tough not only on you but the kids, too. cry, scream, and burn his pictures if you have to, but at the end of all of that, put your kids first and yourself. Love them and yourself.

I’m so sorry girl! Stay strong! This had happened to me and I was left with my 2 young children! Stay strong for your babies don’t let them see you hurting! You deserve love and no matter how hard it hurts right now it will get better and you will get through this! If you want to talk pm me! You will be ok girl! Your a strong woman and it shows coming on this platform posting

I’m so sorry. That’s crazy and randomly unexpected to happen so suddenly. I wonder if he’s having a mental health crisis. To be trying to conceive and then randomly tell you and your kids to leave is a big shift

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