Husbands friend

My husband sees his friend on the day I work every week. He goes for lunch with our toddler to the pub with his friends every week . He also expects me to go out for dinner with them often but the problem is they don't like me. I can tell and I keep saying to him i don't want to be forced to go because it's so awkward but he alwats ends up yelling at me and getting his way.i feel he sees his friends enough already as he sees his best friend usually atlest for 8 hours minimum every weekend. I have always tried to start conversation and ask his friends and wife questions but they never reciprocate so the past few times I haven't bothered either. The other week they didn't even say hello to me! His friends wife basically ignores me and I've had to tell her nor to kiss my daughter on the face or give her Eskimo kisses. She's too full on in her face yet barely talks to me. It's infuriating! Why should I be expected to spend time with these people? My husband says if I don't go he will just take our daughter anyway but I don't want her around these people that dont like me anymore, he already tales her to the pub with them every week! What would you do?

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Oh wow ur husband is putting everyone before u n the baby.. including himself Don’t listen don’t go. Put boundaries. Protect ur peace . U can compromise but whenever u feel ready .. until then do things that uplift u and make him respect u

He clearly has very little respect for you as his wife. He isn’t taking into consideration your feelings & how this situation affects you! No one has access to my child that doesn’t like me or try to make an effort unfortunately. He shouldn’t be putting his friends before you, he should be asking them what their problem is & why they are so hostile around you! I’m so sorry your going through this but don’t be forced into going if it’s not something you are uncomfortable with. X

I forgot to mention he insists they like me. And when I've discussed that I'm uncomfortable around his friends wife because she's too full on with my daughter in a way that makes me upset he just says that the problem is with me and I need to just deal with it aka get over it and put up with it

Honestly I would put your foot down and say they’re all being disrespectful. Or I would go and call them all out. When you say hi and they don’t say something back I would go “I SAID hello?!” But pregnancy has made me more confrontational lol

Sounds like he reaaallllly likes his friends!! (Not in a good way)

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