@Willow wow that was really nicely put lol I’m definitely there. It does bother me but I’ve just reached a point I’ve never been at before. It’s a little disheartening that he’d change his code it feels like he doesn’t really care to work on my trust
It sounds reasonable he changed his passcode. You found something that turned out to be nothing. He doesn’t want you to find something else and start an argument that turns out to be nothing. Either you trust him or you don’t
It is really hard and relationships r really hard and there's never one right answer or one story to something it's definitely something u guys need to talk about tho because lack of communication will always be the main reason a relationship fails everything else bad stems from that. If u ever need someone to chat to or want advise just drop me a message 😁 x
@Willow thank you 🥹
If you already have a passcode and you had it first, I see nothing wrong
Why did you have access and he didnt.... Give him yours and you can have his... Cant have your cake and eat it too
I would ask why he felt the need to change the pass code just out of curiosity but at the same time if u feel the need to go through his phone it definitely bugs u a lot more then u think and there's definitely trust issues that need to be addressed together because if u feel the need to go through his phone that means something he's doing is making u uncomfortable and not trusting him. As a girl who has been in relationships with going through there phone, only fans purchases, weird conversations, changing the passwords, the lads holidays where something could of happened or did, not addressing the issues caused a lot of resentment towards him and I also ultimately realised that the minute I felt the need to go through there phone whether it be because of my insecurities or his actions the relationship was on the verge of over x