Is your partner lazy?

Is anyone else’s partner relied on them so much that now you’re back to work they still expect you to do the same as if you weren’t working? He can’t be bothered to put his laundry away after it’s been washed. Doesn’t get up for our son in the morning to take him to nursery. If he had lunch at home the mess he leaves isn’t fair, but he denied it and got really angry about it when I’ve confronted him. I dunno how to deal with this as I can’t cope any more! How have other people dealt with their partners?

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Don't have any advice because mine is the exact same. Even before we had a baby! His laundry can pile up for weeks in our bedroom once it's been washed, I end up shoving it in the airing cupboard so it's out the way so i can hoover. I just want more help with things but I'm fed up of 'asking' for 'help'. It's their house too, they shouldn't be 'helping us'😕 x

@Chloe it’s made me feel a bit better known there are others like this too. We had a bit of an argument last night because he denied it. I don’t understand why he’s suddenly like this. He’s a clean freak so wouldn’t leave anywhere a mess before we had a baby. We shouldn’t have to ‘ask for help’ as it’s their house and their child

I’m the same, feel like he’s my other child that I have to do everything for😂 got to the point I just stopped doing his washing, if he doesn’t wanna contribute to any household chores where we both live and pay for then he can live like he’s homeless 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Courtney yes that’s how I feel! Some days he’s fine he’ll clean etc and other days he does FA! Does he live like he’s homeless or has he started contributing?

I’m exactly the same, sometimes he’ll crack on and other times I get FA or I get the classic line “I’m doing it” and I’m like when? And then I just end up doing it because annoys the shit out of me having to wait😂

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