Advice

My son’s kindergarten teacher said today that she talked to the behavior analyst about him and that they may do some testing on my son. I have ADD & it wouldn’t surprise me if he has something as well. He’s such a great kid at home. He will have an attitude a little when he’s tired.. He is always not listening in school.. I ask 3 out of the 5 days of school sometimes 2 out of the 5 how he’s doing.. everyyyyy time the teacher says he touches the kids, try’s to make everyone laugh, and talks a lot. I don’t ask everyday how he is because I already know what I’m gonna hear & I want to hear it from my son instead of the teacher.. my son swears he’s a good boy but always thinks he’s a bad boy when I ask his teacher & that’s part of why I don’t ask everyday so he can be proud of himself some of the days.. he will tell me every little detail from school, if he wasn’t listening. He a kid is being mean. anyways, my son is smart. Right now in kindergarten they are coloring, learning a new letter everyday, learning 1-20.. my son says he’s bored. He says things like “well, we colored today. AGAIN.” Or “I already know my ABC’s, numbers, shapes, math” and I have to explain to him that not everyone knows that stuff and that we have to allow the other kids to learn & for him to be patient. She said “he doesn’t turn in his work in first, he doesn’t know his sight words, he doesn’t know how to read” when I was telling her he’s so smart and may be bored. like I think my son is in the middle of not ready for 1st, but right now too advanced for kindergarten.. I tell him to be patient that it’s the only first few months of school & to wait until you start reading more, sight words, harder stuff. Well, today when talking to the teacher she had told me he backed talked & stuck his tongue out at her (which isn’t like him at allllll).. my son mentioned the other day “how come some kids don’t turn their homework in.. why do I get homework and not them”.. I was telling the teacher the things he would say and told her that he’s so focused on everyone else but himself. She said “all the kids do turn in their work” & I was explaining I think the behavior is due to being bored. I added not bored with her class or her, but bored with what they are required to learn right now. He loves his teacher! But I know she got her feelings hurt that I said that.. I could tell.. He always try’s to be class clown the teacher and I discussed today. We do challenging things at home so he can work his brain more. But, I’m failing being a mom. I’m trying to have talks with him, disciplining him for not listening, but I’m running out of things to say & do. Every time I ask the tesxhed, I already know the outcome so I just say “I’ll work with him on things at home”.. Sorry if this is all over the place, my mind & anxiety are bad today. Need help. Bad! Any advice? 🫨 I will ad, his other teacher was standing there for the convo (she had a baby and went on maternity leave. She was checking on her students & grabbing her daughter. So there’s a sub for now, who’s my son’s teacher for now) but you could tell they both gave eachother a look when I looked back and I felt so embarrassed. Forgot to add, he does know how to spell some words & read some words but not a whole book yet.