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Idk who needs to hear this but if your kids are EXTRAORDINARILY bad behaved it’s your fault. I’m tired of mothers not taking accountability for how terrible their kids act and raggin on their children for it. Like if you have no structure, no consistency, no set rules/boundaries & all you do is hit them or scream at them of course they’re bad. You’re lazy and can’t blame them for how they act. 🤷‍♀️

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FACTSSS!!!! So much easier to blame and abuse them than to fix up and do the REAL hard work

Can we also talk about how people like that think yelling and hitting their kids will somehow magically make their kids in turn not yell or hit others when mad, as if leading by example isn't the best way to teach your kids how to deal with emotions like anger. Totally makes sense that if you yell and scream and hit them they'll understand that not okay, right ? How are these people shocked their kids act exactly like them when they're mad or don't get their way?

@Jaelyn yes we can talk about it 😂 because I haaaaattteee having my toddler around other kids that get whoopings. They always be mean to her or hit her and she’s so sweet. Shes so sweet bc im sweet to her and i dont want her learning to hit and be mean because other parents can’t get up and TEACH their kids properly! Like how do they not see the correlation between their child’s behavior and their actions. It’s crazy

Yup! And keep em away from mine cause she’s sweet and I want her to be sweet forever 😅

I totally agree with all of this. The way you treat you kids is how there gunna behave. I don’t believe in smacks on the bum etc. I don’t see any point in it. A gentle approach is more effective

They're usually around like minded people who treat their children the same so they think it's normal. They think we're the snobby parents who have everything come easy to us. It takes time, patience, love, understanding, compassion, empathy, and a whole lot more to raise a nice civilised, kind children from the very moment they are born. Some parents think it's the job of nurseries and schools to teach their children everything! Potty training, how to be nice, basic stuff. Then they have the audacity to say things like "being a mum is the hardest job. I need a break" after they've been at breakfast club, school and after school club all day. Boggles the mind. But each to their own. It's especially sad when their child is with someone else and is so well behaved and is doing well for their age. But their parents don't have time for them and their child ways and lose it over them being a normal child.d for doing something that is typical for a child of their age. Anyway 😔