I cheated

I feel extremely lost. I’ve been with my baby father round three years and have had our child 2 years. My BD has cheated on me with his ex a few times including when I was freshly post partum. After I’ve forgiven him many times (these aren’t the only issues we’ve had) I feel like the relationship just isn’t there anymore I’ve told him this but he just acts like everything’s normal. The relationship just feels jaded all though I love him very much Fast forward to now I have met up with my ex boyfriend twice and the guilt is eating me up in side. I have strong feelings for them both but I’m thinking I probably need to take a step back from everything. I told my baby’s father how I feel and we should end things tonight and I think he’s low-key surprised but he knows I’ve felt unhappy for a while. He’s a great dad but I don’t see it as a relationship anymore I’m unhappy. I feel so much guilt for my little girl that I’m breaking up our family.
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Relationships are filled with its ups and downs. I feel you should tell him you cheated and if he still wants the relationship as you did in the past then you guys need to stick together and fix things up. True love is hard to come by this days. I also suggest you guys try doing new things together to spice things up a bit. Role plays Game nights Movie nights Drama nights Lots of things dear. Please be strong , ❤️nobody ever said marriage was easy😜

I'm glad you told him you wanted to end things takes alot of courage but seems like the best decision for you both.

@Michelle Thankyou lovely

@Janni ❤️ thanks, I really need the courage to tell him what I did but I’m full of shame and guilt

He’s content. As long as you’re not arguing or anything he knows you’re going to stay and he can do whatever. Confess to him if it makes you feel better but he either won’t care or he will just use it against you. Staying in an unhappy relationship is the worst thing. She deserves to have a happy momma ♥️

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