@Kirsty he could but then he just wouldn't answer his phone or he'd be too drunk to help. He did similar in the past I asked him to come home and he didn't come home until 3 hours later, coming up with excuses and then his phone died or he turned it off. Which is annoying haha x
Could you ask him to settle your little girl and then go out after? He’d only be a few hours later than everyone else? And you can go to bed earlier? Or is there anyone who can come and help you? X
This is a tough one, as I do feel that we all need time out sometimes, so I wouldn't want to begrudge him this, but I also see things from your perspective. My partner wouldn't go, as he doesn't really like going out anyway, plus he wouldn't want me to struggle
Is there anyone else who could help you?
Could he go out but with the agreement that if you’re really struggling he will come home?