Best friend being a pick me around husband

Ya that’s not a friend you need in your life

Ur not crazy that is her being a bad friend. It’s toxic and the fact that she reacted the way she did when you brought it up to her instead of being understanding and apologetic just goes to show that she did have an agenda. Her becoming defensive and then choosing not to speak with you shows that she was trying to possibly get with your husband because when people are called out for doing sneaky shit they get defensive and act all high and mighty and try to make you look like the bad guy for insinuating it.

I agree with Krystal and Bella... she is not a true friend, and her getting defensive is her trying to manipulate. Let her go...

Bruh you lost me when you said normally it wouldn’t matter that she stolen her friends man. I don’t fw cheaters even as friends because they’ve proven their character and lack of empathy. I’d lets the trash take itself out and find some girls girls who support you.

@Blair HEARD I say that becuase they were still teenagers and people can grow and heal out of toxic cycles.

I KNEW I WASNT CRAZY! Thank you guys. I take sad that my whole life I’ve been gaslit /abusedto the extent that I was that makes it so hard for me to trust what I see so CLEARLY. Healing is a journey.

Yea I don’t let my friends get close with my husband bc I don’t want to end up on an episode of dateline 👍☺️

@Girlmama I didn’t even let her get close. We never hung out with our husbands together and we usually hang out when our guys are at work but she started hanging out later like she was waiting for him to get here when she was wearing no bra and assy shorts… but OCCASISONAL things… like her dad came over to help with something and she came with to “hang out” or a kids bday bash or big holiday thing..

@🇵🇸Lorin 🇵🇸 if you feel something you’re right about it 100% we have a 6th sense for this shit I swear!

U did right let her go pls don’t never let her back in

The hard part of letting her go is that our daughters were best friends and we homeschool so making new friends is hard. But I know I’m making the right choice

So many red flags she obviously wants your man lol cut that off immediately

@🇵🇸Lorin 🇵🇸 https://www.facebook.com/share/r/oa4KFJ6VWCWkTCQ8/?mibextid=Mk4v2M

She is being toxic, and you definitely don't need her in your life.

@Girlmama lmao. thankfully my husband was repulsed by her “pick me attitude” and not being handsy like this video…

Omg my husband's friend from our high school recently moved nearby and came over with his wife once over the summer (I knew his friend in high school, but never talked to him). We all mentioned this and I said, "I knew your name, but I don't think we ever talked." Anyway I found out from my husband that I guess his friend's wife does NOT want him over here without her with him even to pick something up from outside like a trailer or whatever. She's like really intimidated by me I guess and since my husband travels maybe that could be something else adding to the fire? My response was, okay? Whatever she is comfortable with but maybe me and her just need to get to know each other more and she will figure out eventually that I ONLY have eyes for my husband and I am definitely not like that. But I couldn’t care less about her limitations or whatnot, nor am I offended because her fears hold zero weight. Also if I know we are going to see them, I intentionally dress more conservatively just out of consideration

Woah! That is so sad. She must have some really strong trust issues.

Yall- I have an update. I confronted her gently to see how she reacted because people only get defensive if they’re guilty and it turned into a huge fight where she was calling me a hypocrite and saying I was jealous and resentful towards her becuase she has more support than me.. she completely steam rolled ever anything I tried to say and made it so clear that she has a really negative perception of me saying it’s a new perception based on what I said in our conversation 😵‍💫 She was petty and defensive and immature asf. I think that’s all pretty telling that she’s been scheming right in my face for a long ass time and I was in denial becuase I didn’t want to beleive it. I’ve talked more with my husband and he’s brought up more instances where she did things and when I mentioned them to me I remembered getting an ick feeling but quickly telling myself I’m just traumatized 😵‍💫 I’ve cut her off for good and she then started attacking her own child whose best friends with my daughter

Saying any and all she does wrong is my daughters fault 🤦🏻‍♀️