How did you know your partner was cheating

I feel like my fiancé is hiding something from me and my gut says it might be cheating he leaves the house frequently by himself and sometime the car comes back smelling like he sprayed it with his calone like enough to cover up another smell and idk how I would even catch him if he is bc ik he’d be smart ab it bc he knows I’m smart and will find out if he’s. Not cautious enough idk what to do am I trippin

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My gut was telling and I refused to listen found out 6 months after we split for a different reason. TRUST YOUR GUt, when you know you know

Agreed with Maya. Trust yourself. Look at the signs. My ex started sleeping more, became more irritable for simple questions, started wearing clothes and colognes I begged him to wear bc it brung me back to our first date etc, he left two almost three hours early for work when his job was only 25-30 minutes away. The signs show, sometimes you don’t need to check a phone or tablet. Give it a minute and see if you see changes in behavior. Some will be obvious some may seem normal. Don’t overthink or say anything to him, just watch.

Regardless of the outcome, if you can't trust him, things are already fundamentally broken. I think it's very rare someone has a true intuition about these kinds of things and is wrong (obviously excluding cheaters who think their partner is cheating because that's what they're already doing). Have you ever asked him where he disappears to? Get tested for STIs either way because it's important to protect yourself.

could he be secretly smoking? the only time i know of people over spraying perfume or cologne its to cover up smoke smell. but you know best, trust your gut. does he say “hey im going to the store” or whatever like does he make an excuse or does he just leave?

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