MIL has enrolled baby into a gym crèche whilst she works out

She only has her one day a week so why can’t she spend the full day with her ? Surley the gym can wait. I’m also not sure how I feel about my baby going to a crèche I’ve not seen before. The day care she goes to me and her dad looked around and met all of the staff. His mums already taken her to a settling in session yesterday and even though our girl apparently loved it that’s not the point. It’s in the city centre where my MIL lives and where I work so surley she could have said come have a look since your her mum. 😤 It’s pissed me off as she’s always saying she wants to baby sit regularly but then plans to palm my daughter off for the gym? Surley they can go on a long walk together if it’s exercise she’s after 😣 She always moans about money too and yet the crèche cost £10 a pop every time

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I wouldn't have it. You've not okayd the creche so no

I wouldn't be ok with this at all!

Yeah sorry anything like this needs to be vetted by mum and dad

Absolutely no way! I’d be furious

No way I wouldn’t allow

Thanks everyone I knew I wasn’t over reacting. It’s not on! 😤

Nope. Not happening. She can go the day before or after. If she wants to see baby and spend time with baby, then SEE baby and SPEND TIME with baby.

Is she offering free childcare to you both? Seems a bit weird she’s chosen to do this as surely she could go after. Unless she’s struggling looking after a baby for a whole day.

Is she like wanting to show off to say "hey mamas, I've got a baby to drop off as well so I can gym"? 🤔

WTAF? How can she enrol a child that’s not hers into a crèche without your approval?! I’d be fuming! The fact that she can’t miss the gym for one day??? Wowzers!

I’m not ok with daycare and stuff yet so if mine did it I would literally pack up my stuff and move to an unknown location 😂😂 I’d be like that’s it enough is enough… you want to take care of my child then yes ok fine but taking her off me to then go give her to someone unknown like wtf sorry I can’t even wrap my head around this. You are absolutely not over reacting. Also was meant to type all this in my first comment but my daughter literally took my phone off me, pressed send and dropped my phone under the bed 🤦🏽‍♀️

@Karen Honestly it just doesn’t make sense. On Monday I was absolutely SEEEETHING I’ve calmed down slightly now but the thing is both me and my partner cannot afford to not work and also my mum who would love to look after her more and yet my MIL has the opportunity to spend all day with our daughter yet she enrolls her in a crèche with out our consent and not spend time with her granddaughter as she wants to go to the gym 😤 Why?! Go another day. How does she think that’s ok? 😠

Nope, I would say no thank you to my mil for the offer. Then extend a counter offer. She may come to see her at our house, free of charge. Or she can join us for free activities or pay for her ticket.

I would stop bringing my child over. If she wants to spend time with my kid, she is not allowed to bring her over to anyone. What's the next step? Will she bring your kid to a friend of her to run errands? Wtf. No no

I would be fuming, and that is putting it mildly She would be banned from ever having my child again as I couldn't trust her.

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