If I see "no negative comments" on a post where someone is asking for advice/help again, I'm going to SCREAM

I think they are clearly indicating they are in a fragile place so you can voice your opinion but try not to be harsh or disrespectful. And if they still can’t handle it then ……… idk 🤷🏼‍♀️😅

What triggered this poll was a Facebook post I saw where this girl was basically listing 80000 awful things about her boyfriend, saying she hates how he treats her, he's a deadbeat dad, etc etc. asked if anyone could help her track him down because he disappeared again with HER car. An older lady told her that she deserves better and gave her some very sweet advice and she goes "I didn't ask for any negativity." GIRL WHAT

You cannot help someone who doesn’t wanna be helped. LOL I’m just not gonna interact with a brick wall of a person. It’s different if they specify they are just venting & do not want advice. But if they’re asking for advice without scrutiny of what they’ve shared of their experiences that’s silly.

How is a lady saying she deserves better negative tho?😭 that sounds prettypositive to me

Being honest is not the same as being mean and disrespectful. If you haven’t learned that yet you’ll need to go back to middle school. “You look fat” vs “that’s not flattering” don’t be a mean bitch. Nobody likes a mean bitch 🫢

I’m doing it anyway.

@Tia nobody likes a mean bitch? Girl are you saying that to yourself or...?

@Parker 又 this is very true - a lot of people aren't ready to see what's directly in front of them. It's wild when it's the 3rd, 4th, 5th time they're complaining about something very publicly and still expecting no one to say anything.

@Victoria honestly I'm still confused 🫠

Just in general no one like a “I’m just being honest” bitch. Like no you’re being mean don’t be a mean bitch lol. You can be honest without being disrespectful that’s all I was trying to say