JEALOUS 😂😂😂

I was with a toxic person and had my first two with and then when carrying my second he cheated and ran off and honestly was the best thing ever for me! I then met my now other half and now 5 years later now a sahm while doing uni with a one year old. And my older two being now 9+6. My eldest two baby dad is hard work but my other half has been amazing! Dw babe he is out there!

I get it. I’m a sorry you feel this way but totally normal. If I spend 1 night alone with baby I panic because I’m afraid of the fact I’m the only one here. I hope you have some other supports like parents. Family or friends you can call on if you need them. 4 months old is so young and I can’t imagine what you go through alone. Sending love ❤️

Same girl same.

I live in a typical Asian household with in laws where I’m expected to cater for my husband and family, while cooking and cleaning and looking after the baby while also trying to keep a full time job and look decent. 😂 it’s tough.

They are not all as happy as they seem..keep that in mind x

@Emma This!! Never think you're missing out based on what you see online. No one wants to truly show if they are miserable ect they just want to keep the unit together. However I couldn't do that, if I was miserable there's no way I'm staying with someone who causes me nothing but stress and misery. Keep strong for yourself and your baby. 🤍

Don’t be jealous your path is different it takes a strong woman to be single with kids. ‘ GOD will never give you a situation you can’t handle’ The strongest soldiers have the hardest battles. A lot of women are not as strong as u and may need to have a man present more

I have a husband, message me if you want him. He is rubbish but he is very good looking 😂😂😂😂

You are not alone I’m not so much jealous but upset that I’m experiencing my beautiful baby my first with out any male comfort or presence. Someone I can laugh and talk about our baby future plans try to navigate that the best way possible. But now I just plan for me and her and try to build myself up out this postpartum place stop dwelling on how it should be and realize what it is. I’m 3 months out and I can say she brings me so much joy and new prospective on life. Especially when it comes to the type of man for myself and the new man I would like to go on my mother journey with me

The grass is always greener babes. I was a single mom for two years and often felt this way. now I coparent with my baby daddy and have another baby with my husband (who I do love) but damn sometimes I miss not having to ‘ask permission’ to do things with my kids! 😂😅

@Maria lol girl!! Im indian and i didnt marry an indian because of that!! Got me an awesome whiteboy whose mom doesnt know how to cook, so it doesnt matter that my rotis arent round🫠😂

I 💯 understand I’m jealous of anyone who’s BD is actually around 🙃 mine ignores me and pretends he doesn’t have a month old baby!!

Find a partner that’s worth a damn. You wanna know, funny story. My husband and I started dating at 16 we knew each other closely longer but 6 months later I was pregnant with our first son. I had him at 17. 2 months before I was supposed to give birth he got in a lot of trouble for drugs and was gone using and being a piece of shit the rest of the time including when baby boy was little. 10+years later he’s a hard working ironworker. We have two more sons and raise my little sister we bought a house own two cars have two dogs and an engagement. He has 6 years sober next month. I still don’t know if I would call it the perfect healthy relationship but I am a stay at home mom and he supports us all. It’s weird the way the world works so looking from the outside you’d never know our history and pain we have went through. There’s much more to the story. Also, being a stay at home mom kinda sucks 😂 the only good part is being with my kids (even when I don’t wannabe right that second) 😂

But the moral of the story isn’t that you and baby daddy might work out in the end. But to know that you can find a loving hard working partner, you deserve that! And even if it’s not your child’s father they can still help you show your baby what a two parent household and what love is. But I’m jealous too! Somedays I’m jealous of independent women who have built everything they have from the ground up. Everything they own is theirs, every choice they make is theirs. But I also know the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Only when we stop watering our own.

@Madhavi this is so cute! I’m so happy for you and I read your profile congratulations 100x on baby girl!

@Kayla AMEN! I said this but much longer winded 😝

@Lia you are absolutely beautiful tho! I also had a baby in June, congratulations mama!

@Cassie yes Gemini moms congratulations and thank you 😊

@Cassie omg🥰 thank you!!!

I get it. I was jealous of that also, I wanted to be a SAHM, my ex husband made plenty of money, we could have afforded it. But he bad mouthed SAHM’s, wouldn’t let me be one past my maternity leave. So at 11 month old, I had to put my baby in daycare while I worked for peanuts. Was ridiculous.