I really need some advice

12 year + relationship. 3 year old daughter. Problems since about 6 years ago. Telling me he doesn't want to buy a house or have another baby with me. Doesn't want o be I the relationship only hear for a family. I feel like we get along and then he gets mad and tells me all this horrible stuff. I said I want to get along and his response was if I want to be in this house and be miserable what are you going to do about it. Feel like he's trying to force me to do the break up. I feel broken and depressed. It's like we're happy and then I get this.