Single mumma life

How do you single mommas even comprehend being a single mum and dealing with everything on your own? Im currently constantly arguing and being treated and spoken to like rubbish always being spoken down to and belittled and i would rather end it on my terms and yes ill be sad for a while but i think i would be happier in the long run and i just have never let people treat me the way im being treated and just feel like im letting myself down. Like i dont know what to do for the best, I basically do everything on my own anyway but i dont want to be on my own but i also dont want to be miserable. Before i had my little girl i always swore i would never have children because i didn’t have a great childhood and everything was a struggle as my mum was on her own raising 2 babies and not that i have anything against single parents i think you guys are amazing but i just never wanted that for myself or my child but now here i am, i just dont know if i should just bury my feelings for the sake of my family and our future or call it quits. Any advice or stories on how you guys cope or anything would be much appreciated. Really down at the minute and anything would help x

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Girl I’m a single mother twice and I love it here! Better to be in the company of those who respect and love you then to be in the company of those who disrespect and mentally abuse you. My 1st child’s father was completely disrespectful and so was his mother I had to part ways for my own mental health and I turned to the county for assistance and support and I had friends and family who also stepped up when I would voice my frustration about needing breaks from my child as well. With my second child “I’m currently pregnant with” the father is an std spreader and a prostitute lover he’s obsessed with messing with sex workers and I didn’t know until it was to late but once again I’m free from all mental stress, anxiety, and depression. You got this! It seems scary but it’s actually not. Being a single mother is more about being strong for your child and stronger for yourself. If momma isn’t ok neither is baby ❤️

Me and my ex ( baby dad) have recently broke. Up and I have just found out I am 5 weeks pregnant I will continue this pregnancy alone and I’m becoming a single mother , my baby dad makes me feel the same way ! Girl leave for your own sanity and end on your terms. Time always heals like you said in the long run you will be better off. ❤️ xx

I left my child’s dad when I was 9 weeks pregnant. I thought I would be sad during my pregnancy and that it would affect it but it was the most peaceful experience I had in a long time. Tolerating any abuse takes a toll on you mentally and physically. I made the decision to leave because I wanted better for my child. My son is currently 1 month old. I’m still trying to figuring things out but now I can finally think clearly without dealing with my ex’s treatment. If anything think about what you want for your kids and the type of woman/mom you will be around them if you are constantly taking hits you don’t deserve. I knew if I stayed I wouldn’t be my best because all my energy would be used to constantly bounce back from how my ex treated me. It’s not easy, I feel bad because now he is coming from a broken home and I did not have that experience but it’s better than a toxic one. My son wakes up and goes to sleep surrounded by nothing but peace and love so I don’t regret leaving

Choose your sanity and truly take one day at a time. You don’t have to have all the answers just remember you’re worth and appreciate the little wins each day❤️

Ik how it is I’m a single mama of 2 babies and if you need a friend you can always message me

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