Feeling down and depressed

I have twins 18 months and I feel their crying and screaming is getting to me now. I m abroad living with my husband as he’s got work here.. I feel isolated and lonely no one to talk to about my feelings… husband is rubbish with feelings
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I’m so sorry! It happens to me too sometimes and as much as I say bring on the kids I want 1 million of them. Any time I see a mother with twins I think to myself that’s a fucking tough boss of a woman. I just could not imagine how hard it is. One is already tough as hell. Just know that ! You’re freakin incredible. Second I’m sorry your husband is this way and it’s ok glad u found the app to unload! :) I’m definetly here as I’m sure many other mamas will be. I struggle with baby screaming and crying and I want to just scream back. What are some things you practice in these moments? Maybe ur husband isn’t a feelings person but is he helpful when it’s time to swap shifts with you and give you a moment to yourself? I’ve been recently fighting through and forcing myself out with baby on a stroller walk, idk if it’s frowned upon, but I wear my headphones when I’m mentally going through it ! Baby could be crying a bit but hey if she’s fully taken care of I just walk and check on her

Hi i am a mom of twins they are 9 now, I guess I had it easy the boys were on the same schedules, they were in the Nicu for 2 weeks it will get better and easier I promise if u have any questions please dm me!!

18 months has a huge regression. I couldn’t imagine twin’s with regressions and possible teething. I highly recommend getting into a routine and following it everyday even when you don’t feel like it. Going on walks helps. Try a mom’s group. I promise once they can really play at playground you will start making mom friends.

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