I m so miserable...life is shit...

Hey hun, I am so sorry you are feeling this way, unfortunately cost of living is hitting everybody hard at the moment, you are not alone x

At Ema so how do you explain people having cars on roads,holidays and always new clothes? I think I m doing something wrong.i got paid on Friday and I need to survive until 4th when I get UC but by then I m behind on rent so that means all my money goes again.and it happand over and over again!

I’m sorry you’re feeling so down. Have you tried talking therapy? The nhs offer free therapy called talking space, it may help you feel less helpless even though it obviously can’t help with money.

At Kate I would love to but I work and then I have mu daughter.I don't have anyone who could have her.

@Karina talking therapy is great, you can maybe do it while your lo is at school ? They can give you an appointment that works for you. I can send you my spreadsheet for budgeting and maybe I can help you with it ? Also please do not compare what other people are doing, so many people are in debt just to do those things.

Yeah if you have a spreadsheet that might help.I need to focus on paying off some debts but also finding better job.I m so unhappy in my current employment I would leave if I could but obviously I need the money...tank you

@Karina talking space also offer an online course which you can do in your own time I think, perhaps once your LO is asleep? I haven’t done it for years but I remember it being helpful and you just self refer online.