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The way you look? 👀 if that’s the case you shouldn’t want to be around People who are family and judge on your looks…

What's wrong with the way you look? Why would that matter?

@Emiliana I feel like this all the time, I feel my partner is embarrassed with me aswell

@Sudanny✨ I look and feel fat and disgusting all the time might be in my head

Girl I’m over weight I just had a baby less then 2 years ago, and sometimes I don’t feel good about myself, but honestly you have to want to change if that’s what bothers you, and not to give a f about what anyone things about you.

@Emiliana a get what you mean, my girl is 7 and av never lost her pregnancy weight I hate it, I have tried

I would try those weight loss clinics, or ask your primary physician for a referral to loose some bmi, tell them you think it’s too high and you would like to lower it

Aw sorry you feel that way girl. Sending you love💕

Love yourself and the things you do all day, and others will be attracted toward you. Try a new skincare routine, new hiking trails, new restaurants, new classes, new things you've done with the kids. People will enjoy the energy you bring to the conversation. They want to talk and interact with you, not stare at you. 😉 You could be very outwardly beautiful and painfully dull at the same time. I bet you also feel stuck in your routines and like you don't get out enough or have interesting things to say. I feel that way sometimes too. 🙂 Work on having fun with yourself, and others will notice.

@Bonny awww thank you for the kinds words, I am going to loose weight and get the old me back

@Emiliana yea am going to work on my self thank you

@Sudanny✨ thank you so much

Sometimes people are cruel including family and that could be the case but sometimes we project based on what we feel about ourselves, sometimes we’re not in a headspace to be around anyone and need to spend that time pouring into ourselves! My baby boy is 3 and I just really got back into taking care of myself the past few months , started reading my bible., lost 30lbs still going, actually putting myself together in the morning skincare taking alone time when I can working on other skills but I’m in a good headspace now and have just started to go to family functions and meeting up with friends again but I stayed away for a while and even to this day if someone invites me to something but I really need that time alone I take it ! Pour into you bc you can’t pour from an empty cup !

@Ebony I left my partner for a year and I felt so good in my self, but I came back and the way I look and feel now is getting me down

Im sorry to hear that, have you guys tried counseling? Do you think it’s something you guys can talk through and work through and repair ?

@Ebony we have spilt up as we can’t be together anymore