Missed miscarriage
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I went through one back in June . I feel the same exact way . I’m doing small things like dressing cute , keeping up with self maintenance, I have a boudoir photo shoot in the next couple weeks to gain my confidence back . It been a struggle because I’m very connected with my body , I always had a sign when something was wrong .
I had an MMC in April and I can relate to this so much! This is exactly how I feel. Why did my body not tell me? Why did my body not save my baby? I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this! I’ve tried to just keep my mind busy? I’ve thrown myself into things I enjoy! And just try to keep positive about it all, because one day, I hope, I’ll have a baby!
@Dakotah that's soo shit babe 💔 I was 16 nearly 17 and opted to get induced even that took a few days for my body to get with the programme just completely sucks doesn't it?
@Emily completely relate to previously feeling connected with my body and a boudoir shoot sounds like a brilliant idea maybe when I'm not covered in blood thinners bruises and still got a bit of a bump 🫠
@Aims I hope you get your baby one day love I'm just waiting for the ok to exercise and hoping to dive into that and not be as furious at myself
I went through a miscarriage in June and ig destroyed me in every way. I kept questioning myself and my body, the body that I “thought I knew” I no longer know and don’t trust which is such a shame. But I had to figure out ways to get myself out of this mindset I went back to work as soon as I could, got back in to fitness, started reading again and practiced gratitude. All this helped me think more positive about my body and mind. Along with this time is a healer.
Yes! So angry, like why would my body do this to me, I felt so stupid like I should have known. It’s just beyond shit. My first month after TTC I also went a little mad, I wanted it so much I genuinely think my body created fake symptoms. I even thought I felt nauseous! I fully lost trust in my body after that and did have to talk it out in therapy. I found a MMC TTC buddy on peanut though and that helped me stay sane as every time we had a negative thought we would rant it out (much better talking to a stranger!). And if it helps, we had our 12 week scan yesterday so there can be a light at the end of the tunnel I promise and I’m so sorry this is happening to you ♥️ Pregnancy after a miscarriage hits very differently I will say, and I’m still in a bit of denial even now. Look after yourself, time does heal a little xx
I felt like that too, had one at 9 weeks. I was still puking daily, I felt like I had hyperemesis gravidarum again which made it all so cruel. So ill for no baby
I’m sorry for your loss, MMCs are so cruel. I found out at my 12 week scan in my first pregnancy and it was just awful. But I’ve gone on to have two successful pregnancies after and have my beautiful rainbow and pot of gold. It does get better 🌈
@Jaz omg that’s terrible and I’m so sorry 😞. Yes it completely sucks and so not fair. Just know that you are not alone and it’s okay to feel all of the things you’re feeling. I hope and pray that we both get our rainbow babies when we are ready to try again 🙏
@Ashley I felt extremely nauseous every single day its just a painful false sense of security isn't it?
I’m so sorry this happened to you. The same thing happened to me and I feel the same way. Had a missed miscarriage at 10w6d and was measuring 8 weeks on 8/12. Had to go through medical management since my body wouldn’t do it naturally.