Little rant

Any mommas feel like family members only come by to see you just for the baby and don’t ever ask about how you’re doing? It’s only like can I come and see the baby? I feel like some don’t acknowledge me it makes me feel sad and lonely. They want a relationship with my child but don’t make an effort to have one with me. I’ve tried on my end but nothing in return. I have set boundaries now and have cut people off am I wrong for this? Like they weren’t present thru out my whole pregnancy not even before I got pregnant. I just feel uncomfortable in a way I don’t know…. Any mommas going thru this? ☹️

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Yup! It’s incredibly frustrating. And now that she’s a year old I’m even noticing people are losing interest in seeing her, I think cause she doesn’t wanna be held and cuddled all the time. ☹️

Yes I went through this. It's very disrespectful and for that reason, I cut off all of those family members. No one called me when I was struggling, I was hospitalized while pregnant 3 times and not a soul called and checked up on me. Soon as the baby was born, my phone blowing up. Nah yall can stay over there.

Yep, but I expected it. I understand your reasoning for cutting people off, and I think you're valid for doing that. The only reason I won't is because my own mom felt disrespected by family members, cut them off, and now I feel robbed of a relationship with them. I can't get that back. So, for my son, I just suck it up. I'm happy that they love my son. I don't really care about my relationship with them in that respect, as long as he's happy and treated well.

Yup! It’s sad once a baby is involved, people to tend to act as if the parents don’t exist. when in reality.. if it wasn’t for us there’d be no baby! harsh to say but it’s the truth.

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