Baby loss

Usually within a few weeks I would miscarry naturally. (Been through it 2x) However it is important to follow up after and make sure it was complete if the bleeding doesn’t last that long or you just don’t feel normal yet within a few weeks to a month after… Rest for at least 3mos then you should be safe to try again… if u get pregnant too soon after u can miscarry again. 🙏🏻

I mean if I’ve been pregnant all this time why would it happen now, I’m confused but maybe that’s just me hurting. I have an ultrasound in 10 days to see if it goes or I have got the option for intervention. Not sure I want that though. I’m only 4 months pp so only got my head round being pregnant again. Thank you x

I tried to do naturally but at 13 weeks the sac was still growing but empty (it was measuring 8 weeks, whereas at my 8 week appointment it was measuring at 6 weeks w/o heartbeat) so I ended up def ping the pill because I couldn’t take it anymore. From 8 weeks on I knew i was confirmed not pregnant but I was still getting morning sickness and would just sob after because it was such a mental mindf*ck to me because I still felt pregnant and was convincing myself that the doctors were wrong. Every appointment after when they’d say “we see less in the sac than last time” it was like I was being told all over again.

I had a missed miscarriage, cramping & bleeding had been building up all week getting worse each day leading up to my no heartbeat scan. It was another 2 weeks before I passed the tissue, just a couple of days before my checkup scan.

@Blair oh wow, that’s horrible! I don’t blame you for taking the pill, it sounded like the right thing for you. I hope it comes naturally but I got 10 days and I don’t think it will :(

I wish it’d just happen tbh, not happening yet!

I had my scan first scan on Wednesday for 12 + 5 weeks and was told they could only see a sac, but measured much earlier and asked if I was pregnant. blood pressure was normal, bloods and urine samples still tested positive. Refered me to an internal in the early pregnancy assessment unit the following day and it was confirmed I was pregnant, there is a baby in the sac but it died at 6 weeks while my body thinks I’m 13 weeks. The agony for waiting for the miscarriage to come is frustrating. This was our first. We have to come back Monday week for another scan so they can officially confirm even though we have been told by 5 drs within 24 hrs there’s no heartbeat.

@olivia yeah that’s what I don’t want, I’m having another scan on Monday when they can give me medical intervention if I want it. I’m just gonna ask for the pills and see if they work as I just want it over and done with :( it’s horrible! I’m sorry! I was ttc for 3 years with my first and had a chemical first then I ended up with my girl! But it’s still just as hard! X

Same I just want it over with aswell.

@olivia it’s stupid how they have to reconfirm something even tho they confirm it.. even with professionals. Frustrating!

So frustrating I just want this done with so we can move on. Feel like we can’t untill the miscarriage has happened

I was thinking about you today. I hope you’re doing okay, stranger.

@Blair oh wow, that’s so kind. Tomorrow is the day it happens, I’ll be so glad to get it over with. You don’t realise how bad you want something until it’s taken away from you!

You don’t want to believe your going to have a miscarriage till you started bleeding 😞

@olivia that’s very true. I think the worst bit is done now, so I’m feeling a little better and just giving myself time to heal now x