Feeling disheartened after miscarriage

Last cycle we lost our little treasure at 7.5 weeks. I’m 44 next month and feel like I’ve totally missed the boat. I really thought this is it last month. I’m now worried all my remaining eggs are chromosomally abnormal and I won’t get a healthy pregnancy to term 😔
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Bless you I’m so sorry to hear that. What you’re feeling is normal, look at it like this you’re still fertile and you can clearly concieve so you still have a chance. Do you take supplements for egg health? Also look into NMN which I swear by. I had 5 losses before this baby stuck and I’m 42 it’s all possible. So sorry for your recent loss sending you love & healing xx 🩷🌸

@Laura 🌻 congratulations on your pregnancy! 5 losses must have been so tough. I have never heard of NMN. Which brand did you take? I just had a quick google and there is a lot of choice. I’m in the UK too! 🥰 Thank you for reassuring me, I feel better already!

You’re very welcome. It’s recommended to only get a very good quality version, there are so many on the market but the more pure the product the better. The one I used and recommend is Renue By Science. I took it 1 month before my 10 week loss in December 22 then again at Christmas this year and I fell again. I stopped as soon as I was pregnant. It’s quite expensive but worth it ☺️ I took a few other supplements too for egg healthy. You will get there, don’t give up!! X

@Laura 🌻 Oh this is great, thank you Laura. I’ve been reading the science and it really does seem a great supplement! I watched a YouTube video and it’s interesting that a low dose is superior to the high dose a lot of companies sell when it comes to fertility. The doctor I watched on YouTube said 250mg. I think that’s what you took looking at the website for renue. Thanks so much for that!

Yes I took 2 per day every lunch time which is 250mg, these particular ones you place under your tongue and let dissolve as it’s slow release and best stored in the fridge. I’ve heard some fab pod casts on NMN it really is a miracle supplement in so many ways. Excellent study’s and results. I believe that, ubiquinol and omega 3 really helped my egg health x

@Laura 🌻 how did you know to buy this particular brand? I see it’s different to the capsules in other website. I take the others you mentioned along with quite a few other things!

I got this one due to a friend of mine who was practically infertile going on it herself and she now has 4 children!! They were trying for years and had no luck then he did a lot of research and decided to put her on this brand of NMN, within 3 months she was pregnant. I don’t trust a lot of side company’s or cheaper versions myself. My friend took it all through her pregnancy but I haven’t xx

@Laura 🌻 isn’t that just incredible! I’m on it!! I have renewed excitement! You are such an angel! Xxxx

Good luck on your journey & please keep us posted 🤞🏼❤️ inbox is always open xx

@Laura 🌻 you are such a nice person. I’m so pleased you replied. I feel so much better. 🥰

Bless you hun thank you. We’re all in this together 🙏🏼 xxx

@Laura 🌻 you go above any beyond. 🧡

I am so sorry for your loss 😔 that must be heartbreaking. I’m 43 and struggling to conceive, I am worried about my egg health and fertility. Thank you @Laura 🌻I’m going to order them next week (if I’m not already pregnant)! I am 2 days late but not tested. I am still trying to get through the book, too 😂 I was doing some research into eggs and supplements last night but tonight, I don’t even feel like AF is coming xx

@Lisa this sounds positive Lisa, please let us know how you get on. X

Thank you, honey. Still no AF today either, so now 3 days late. I’ll pop into town this afternoon and get a test. I still don’t feel like she’s going to come. I’ll keep you posted xx

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@Lisa well it isn’t over without AF! Crossing my fingers for you xx

Thank you, honey 😘 xx

@Lisa did you test?

No, I went out to get a test, made it all the way there and totally forgot until I was on the train home 🤦🏼‍♀️😩 so hubs is going to pop into town for me in a couple of hours and grab some tests xx

@Lisa ah ya nugget! 🤣 will you test with FMU? Xx

🤣🤣🤣 that really made me laugh. Clearblue digital + said not pregnant 😢 Is that absolutely reliable at 18dpo? I only have 23 day cycles. This is all so confusing to me and I’ve already had 5 kids. I feel gutted 😭 xx

@Lisa digital tests are a bit later than dye tests. If you now ovulation I’d have thought it would have picked it up by now though. I like pick dye tests the best. Maybe leave it a few more days. You could get a FRER from Amazon on prime? Xx

Okay, that gives me a little hope. Thank you ☺️ I don’t track ovulation, just my periods. I have a 23 day cycle according to my period app… now Im thinking I’m in perimenopause. Maybe I’m just stressing too much? I don’t know?! 🤷🏼‍♀️ I feel sad tonight but I’ll see what happens in the morning. I may just leave it a few days, see what comes 🙏🏻 I’ll leave it in God’s hands for now. Thank you for keep checking in on me. The people on here are the only people I have, really xx

I’m actually going to a shopping centre on Friday, so I’ll pick up some other types then. I’ll keep them in the bathroom cupboard. We live in a tiny little village with no shops, no Deliveroo, no buses, no Uber, no pavements or streetlights! It’s all country lanes… I have to walk 1.5 miles to the train station to go two stops for a pint of milk! Then the walk back!! It’s tough living here but my guy is a cyclist and he’s going to buy me a bike this weekend and take me out and teach me to road cycle while we save up for a car. I have to order everything online. Driving me mad! Xx

@Lisa you are so patient! It’s good to be chilled. I’m manifesting AF stays away! Xx

How did you get on today @Lisa xx

Any update hun? I hope you are doing ok xx

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